For the first time in life, at the age of 28 years I fell in love with a guy who was in my company & same was with him. He popped the question of marriage directly. I took some time to say yes as his family was from a small village, so I was afraid of the mindset of his family but he convinced me that his family is broad minded & they will be fine with our relationship.

So, I gave in as we both truly loved each other. We were in a rock solid relationship where nobody could separate us. Whole office knew that we are about to get married. But, my family was against the idea of both of us getting married as there was a huge cultural & family background difference.

I fought with my family & took a strong stand to be with this guy at any cost. In these 2 years, he took good care of me, he knew what I liked to eat, he handled my mood swings. He supported me emotionally when my family was in a big personal trouble. Due to this for 3 months I was at home.

He came to meet me at my city especially for a week via flight with his fractured hand just to support me as he had a huge bike accident. He even bought his own home as my father had put a condition that he will get us married once he buys a home.

This guy is really a gem of a person & I know nobody would have done so much to get a girl. After this my parents also agreed. In the lockdown period, they did our roka. His family was present on video call. They also seemed to be really happy. Wedding date was also fixed.

But, after that the real story began.... his side of the family never spoke to us on phone. They spoke only when my parents called them to ask what are their rituals, how many gifts do they need for their side of family etc.

After 3 months of fixing the date when my dad again called them to confirm how should we proceed, his family told us to postpone the wedding which was not possible as both of us are already in our early 30's, and had already told all our friends & relatives of the wedding date.

There was all chaos going on. But after this also one day his elder brother called my mom & told very firmly that they need to stay in a 4 or 5 star hotel & not at the place where we have booked rooms. When my mother told him that she had already invested her money & she can't afford a stay at a 5 star as she wants to help my fiance & me in setting our new home, he just shut the phone. That was really rude.

When my fiance got to know about this, he shouted at his family & told his father to apologize. After 2 days his father apologized to which my mom told him to not to do this as he was elder in relation & age as well. She explained to him that as her future son in law is in loan, she wants to invest more money in his new home as that home needs new furniture, kitchen utensils etc.

His father the next day turned around this fact & told my fiance that my mother told him about his "aukaat" which he didn't like. Due to this fights started cropping between both of us.

His family was not helping him financially for his new home. So he took another loan. Moreover they were asking him to send them money. My fiance was in deep stress & our fights had increased. Somewhere I thought that I can handle & adjust financial & family stress as we both really want to be together.

But, after his dad apologized to us, me & my family weren't able to sleep for 15 days, we were getting bad dreams & there was a vibe that something negative is going on. My fiance's behaviour also changed. The person who was so calm & patient with me, he was shouting at me, not listening to me since a month.

Even somedays before, they asked me for my solo photo which I sent them. My gut feeling was saying that something is not right with his family & I said no to the wedding 1.5months prior to the date. He told me that me & my family are fraud as we ditched him.

His sister called me & said that they visited a "tantrik baba" & he said that this marriage won't work. She persuaded me to leave her brother as his side of family is against me as I called off the wedding.

As soon as she used the word "tantrik" I was taken aback & had 95% confirmation that this family is into black magic to separate us. After our breakup, my fiance told me that his family called him up & said that someone in the family has done a tona totka to cancel this wedding & same tantrik baba is now helping his family.

He blindly trusts his family & thinks someone in the extended family has done this. To this I completely realized that when his family is using negative energies just to separate us then what would they have done once we would have got married.

Now my family is searching for a groom for me but I still miss & love him a lot. I can't forget him ever & I'm scared that I can't imagine to spend my whole life with a stranger. He also loves me & still thinks that I will be back. Guys, I need your suggestions whether what I did was right or wrong that I called off my wedding. And also advise how to move on because I still love him & feelings are still strong.

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