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My Boyfriend Chose To Repent By Confessing So Now I Don't Know What Path To Take

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I was in a seemingly perfect relationship for almost 10 years. I am a dentist and he is an IT professional. We knew each other since our school days. We used to fight now and then but still we were holding on to each other. We never let each other down.

Our relationship was a long distance one for most of the years but he was very supportive throughout. He was a perfect guy to be in a relationship with (at least thats what i thought). We were planning to move ahead in our relationship and started talking to our parents about our marriage and I was still doing my post graduation away from home.

He is the only person I come back to when am depressed or lonely, next to my mom. All our friends and colleagues knew about us and we were always seen like an ideal couple among our circle. So everything was going perfectly fine, until one day when I received a mysterious call from his colleague.

She started stalking me on social media which I discussed with him. But he said she had a crush on him and that she is jealous of me. So I brushed it off. Three months later she started calling me and saying that his number is not reachable and he is not taking her calls, so she asked me whether I can ask him to talk to her.

Thats when I found that something was strange and asked my boyfriend about it. He gave the shock of my life. He said he was on an office tour 1 year ago when he accidentally slipped up with her (she was aware that he had a girlfriend) because rest all were drunk and these two were left alone. But, he liked what had happened there because we were not sexually active and he said receiving oral sex for the first time ever, felt good. So he continued it on two more occasions. But later he had come to meet me in my workplace and that's when he realised what he had done and he had apologised to the girl for what had happened and started avoiding her.

But then, after a few days she started blackmailing him that she will reveal everything to me if he did not continue talking to her. On a few occasions she even blackmailed him to the extent that he had to accompany her to theatres and public places along with her friends. She made him change his passwords of our common accounts all under the threat of telling me everything.

Whenever he blocked her number, the next day she would come to his cabin and argue about it. She also would show him screenshots of calls being made to me under the disguise of a patient or someone else. She had told him that he was the first guy that gave her attention in her whole life and that she needs it at least until he is married with me. She had even tried to threaten him that she will commit suicide if he didn't break up with me. Until a point he had withstood her and finally he gave up and blocked her on all social media accounts and personally too. And since he got work from home in the covid period, he lost all personal contacts with her.

He was depressed for the past 6 to 8 months but he always told me it was due to work pressure. But now he told me it was because of her and he couldn't take everything so he told me all the truth. He also said that I am the only girl he loves and wants in his life. And that he is ready to give up everything to show that he is repentant.

He even resigned from his job and left his home for me when his parents opposed our marriage recently. But all this happened too quick and I can't decide what I need.

First of all, I never expected him to cheat on me ever. I did not have the slightest hint of suspicion when all this was going on. He is generally a nice person. He is very helping, kind and funny. He is a teetotaller and also never argues with anyone. It was all too much for me to take when I got to know about all this.

I do not know whether I should take him back because he confronted his mistake and showed his repentance. Or should I consider the possibility that it will occur again in the future. I was not prepared for this phase of life. But still we both are talking to each other. Because, even before we became a couple, we were best friends and we only have each other.

So, I am trying my best to understand what's going on and to decide what's best for the future. But whatever happens I will never be able to forgive this girl or his friends, m**** and v**** for telling him that it's normal in long distance relationship and they were not having real sex so it's okay and even compelled him to come on double dates with them even though they were good friends with me the whole time. I can only wait and watch what karma has in store for them.

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