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Here's Why I Don't Think Running After Tit For Tat Is Worth It

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*For representational purpose only.

Let’s just not do the TIT for TAT business! Because now it seem like enforcement rather than your own wish!! The world seems to be like a company full of people doing tit for tat business.

Well, I am a 24 year old independent individual ( do not feel imp to mention my sex though ) In these 24 years of my life, I have been mature enough to understand the things which came to me and the things to which I went on with my own conscious. Today, randomly while sitting at home and doing office work I strongly feel like writing up about nothing but entirely what I feel and might be you too tend to feel the same if you read this too.

When I used to be a kiddo, I used to think that this Tit for Tat thing only continues if u do bad to someone. I was so empowered with this thought that I implied the same in my life too. A strong belief in “what goes around comes around” made me do so. I used to believe, if I just don't do bad to anyone and leave the good thing aside, I will be all set to go.

For me the rule for a “Happy life” was very simple and straight which said that whenever I am doing anything to some other person whether saying something good or bad, love or hate or anything, just think once that how am I going to feel about the same if the same thing was happening to me.

But today, when I sit alone in this room I feel nothing like the so called mantras I followed happened with me. Let us forget our parents for a minute, they are actually never into this tit for tat business, let’s talk purely about those relations which we make with your own wish. Those relations which are never imposed on us. If you don't make a call or a text to a friend of yours thinking that they will hustle and call you back to know whether you are doing alright or not, you think that this is going to happen because you did the same when they were feeling lost right? But you know what.. What I seriously feel? It’s not true at all.

I m sick and tired for running after these relations. Why can’t I be loved the same way I love the other person. Everywhere what I see is it is all about taking the first initiative but are we so sure that the day we will stop doing it, will someone else do it for you?

Well, I don’t feel ashamed. Instead I am proud to say that I am afraid to lose and let go of our relations no matter what. I hope someday I really get to this that the TIT for TAT business is not continued at least when it comes to relations.

 Let’s start valuing the relations and those people who are standing in the crowd just for you. Look for them and never lose them. Because today they might be standing and waiting for you, what if they tend to be weak tomorrow to wait anymore. Just think.

 Love

A sunshine Believer

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