Dear Married Woman, There's No Right Time To Give Wings To Your Dreams
Each and every person in this world has dreams. There are very few lucky ones who get to accomplish them as well.
Women fulfilling their dreams are as few as gems stone in this world because each and every woman needs to sacrifice a lot of things as she grows.
Society has made a strict set of rules that she has to follow and if she fails, she is not a good woman, she's in fact a bad bad woman. The so-called society starts bitching about her immediately.
At some point, she has to get married even though she is doing great in her career. If she continues with her professional life, she will be in a very good position but society and her parents say, "Beta shaadi karlo kaam waha ja kar bhi kar sakte ho koi nahi rokega." In the beginning, her in-laws also tell her that she can work freely after her marriage.
But just like a lion gets trapped, she also gets trapped in wedlock. After getting married, she becomes a wife, a bahu. Then she starts to do the small things so that she could be a good wife and bahu. She does all household chores and the mind stops thinking about achieving new targets. All-day, she only thinks about how she can be better in her role at her new home.
Her priorities change when she becomes a mother. After she stops working, she becomes a full-time homemaker. From morning to night, just does household chores. She feels completely lost.
At one point in time, she finally wonders about what's become of her. That time, she needs to help herself channelize the doubt into a passion.
She needs to again rise from the ashes, think positively for herself this time, and give wings to her dreams. There's no "right time" for that.