Once in your lifetime, you will meet someone who breaks down your walls and makes you fall in love with them. Let me correct that. You will fall, unconditionally and irrevocably, in love with them. And then, they will break your heart.
Trust me, they’re trouble. You should run away from them. But you don’t know better. And right now, they are the best thing that’s happened to you, even though they will become the ones who will turn your entire life upside down.
You can call them charmers. There’s something about them that will make you fall for them. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or how much time you two have spent together. All it takes is one second to fall in love. No matter how hard you try, you will end up falling for them madly and deeply.
But it’s not your fault. Because we don’t choose whom we fall for. At first, you don’t understand if it’s love or love misunderstood as attraction. It is the kind of love that comes without warning. And you will break your heart before you can say no.
You wish to talk to them about everything, even the small, unimportant things. You start thinking about your life with them. And just as easily as they gave you every reason to fall for them, they will provide you with enough reason for why you shouldn’t have in the first place.
Now that’s the time you will realize that you haven’t felt more loved and more hurt by the same person. Now you know that he is not the right one for you, but you just can’t get yourself to hate him. You just can’t. It’s too late now; you love him too much to hate him.
You have realized what you have done; you have given someone this power over you. Power to hurt you. You try to stay strong but get weak every time you see him or talk to him.
You don’t want to expect that he is capable of hurting you. I mean, how can he say that he loves you, then walk away like you meant nothing? How can he talk to someone else the way he talks to you? How can he feel for two people at the same time?
You’ll be left answering questions like, ‘Why me?’ or ‘How could he do this to me?’ Helpless, you will have more questions than he has answers. But anyway, his answers aren’t logical either.
You want to believe him, want to prove everyone wrong. But you know it’s not possible because the damage has already been done.
Nobody seems to understand what you are feeling or what you are going through and want you to move on. But it’s not that easy.
How can you forget someone so easily who gave you so much to remember? Someone you have so many memories with? Someone you have loved with all your heart? Someone you have planned your future with?
But it’s okay; it’s nobody’s fault because they are your family, and they want the best for you. So, just for your family, you decide to let go of this troubled love because family always comes first. They are the reason you have this life, and nobody in this world can love you more than them. You try to stay strong and forget about your so-called love, but you miss them so much that it hurts.
You feel depressed, and you want to move on, but you don’t know how. You don’t know how much time it will take or if you ever will move on. But you will feel better with time. At this moment, you are okay but not happy anymore.
You will never forget about him or the way he made you feel. He will always have a piece of your heart. You will always love him even after whatever he has done.
That’s who you are, and it’s fine. You are rare, and he didn’t know how to take care of you.
Now he has realized his mistakes and wants you back, ready to do anything for you. But it’s too late now; you won’t choose him over your family. You can never trust him completely.
He had a chance to be with you, but he decided to cheat.
He has made a mistake, and now you both are suffering. Actually, it wasn’t a mistake; it was his choice.
Now, he is suffering because of the choices he made, and you are suffering because you have a pure heart, which is a curse in today’s time.